Written by Holly Cole, the "Seasoned NICU Mom"... or so they call me at this hospital. They are impressed with what I know. This means they all have an easier job. It has been 11 weeks of teaching and learning! :) One Dr said I am for hire:) Anything is quotes is hospital talk. With all the stress and return trips, I figured I add some of my expertise:)
They told me preemies were more prone to sickness, and I didn't believe them to the degree I should have. Now you can NOT convince me otherwise. Nor can you convince me to change my thoughts on all the parasite stuff I have been reading and learning about. I will not live in fear, but I will live EXTREMELY CAUTIOUS without living in a bubble! So, this social butterfly, WILL NOT BE HAVING ANYONE OVER FOR A FEW MONTHS, especially if you have little ones. My family's health and priority. NOW.. knowing what a social butterfly I am, I will need phone calls and e-mails and im's to keep me in touch with "the outside world". You have all been so supportive and I do not know what we would have done without all your thoughts and prayers.
Please pray for all the other children also in NICUs and PICUs all over the world. There is not a sadder sight than to see some of the issues other families are having to deal with compared to ours. Ours is still stressful, but I know NOW Sabrina will be healthy and home soon.
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Holly -you're doing great! Don't feel bad!!! We didn't let anyone in our house for the first month and told people "technically they shouldn't have been born yet" to get them to feel good about seeing them when they're older. Even my sister's family, visiting from Massachusett's viewed the babies from our windows. We felt bad - but when we let them get "passed around" (something our dr said not to do) even at Thanksgiving (when they were 4+ months old) they ended up getting a bad cold and at Christmas (5+ months), a stomach bug. Every time we let up those first 6 months they caught something scary that really set them back. - Denise (Schuster) Lusby & family
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